The scam called Val!

     Have you ever wondered why February 14 makes you crazy as a person? Is it because Valentine's day is a social event or because you personally have a deep-seated conviction that lovers should have a special day.

     Now think about it, why should true love be celebrated only ones a year? This is why I think it's a scam. Who is fooling who, that's for you to decide? Is it the mainstream media, or the companies who manufacture goods which skyrocket in sales on this day or is it the lover who only thinks of his or her deep affection for you ones in 365 days?

     My girl and I have been together for five years and never for ones, have we celebrated Valentine's day. Not because we can't afford to get gifts for each other on such a beautiful occasion, but because we do that all year round. Same goes for birthdays and Christmas holidays.

     Consciously, I think about making my girl happy every day of the year, so if your man only shows you love on the middle date of February, then you need to ask, where does his love go to for the rest of the year.

     Cakes are good, flowers are thoughtful, dresses are awesome, dinners are divine. You can give and have all these whenever you deem fit, don't let the idea of 'a day of love' stop you from showing that special lady or man just how much you care with or without a tag on the day.

     I have never seen anything as romantic as a loving gesture done as a total surprise. It screams 'I'm thinking about you' and 'you mean the world to me'. That's the real way to love.

     Val will be over before you know it but don't let the love end with it. Never stop letting how that special woman or man is important to you ever fade away or dry out, love isn't a day job, it's a forever thing.

     Focus on the love and not the day. Love is a beautiful thing.

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